This is the online version of a female walking down the street past any group of men who hoot and holler, who decide to follow you, who try to pressure you to respond to their catcalls and then get mad when you don’t. This online version is called catfishing. They tend to start like this:
Although to this one’s credit, there is more wording than you would normally see. Usually it’s just “hi” and they keep sending the same message, then they get mad when you don’t respond. I usually delete or block them.
But textbook definition of catfishing online is someone hiding behind a false identity who tries to lure you into a relationship. We’ve seen numerous versions of the offline version of this: on Investigative Reports, Dateline, and 20/20. It never ends well. It doesn’t always end in murder, but it likely always ends with a parting of the funds.
Dr. Phil has listed a few things to look out for when you decide to entertain the thought of online dating.
- Fake photos.
- Above average poor spelling and grammar.
- They’re ready to jump into marriage before you say hello.
- They ask for money.
- Too many questions.
If it seems creepy, it usually is a creep. Forget politeness. When you get continuous Google chat popups like the one above, or Facebook direct messages, just block and delete. No explanation or response is necessary.
Women ain’t got time for catfish.